How to Send Bereavment Flowers

When you receive news that someone has died it is customary to send flowers for the funeral. Funeral flowers are a touching way to share your sadness and grief with those who have recently suffered a loss. There are many different types of funeral arrangements, and different cultures have very different positions on funeral flowers, so your best option is to talk to someone close to the bereaved if you aren't sure about their specific customs.

Funeral arrangements were traditionally made up of white flowers but it is also common to see a mix of flowers and colors. Some types of flowers used in sympathy work are lilies, calla lilies, roses and dianthus (carnations) but it is perfectly acceptable to send another type of flower. If you know what the person's favorite flower was, it is a nice gesture to send a personalized floral arrangement, one including his or her favorite flowers or colors, or an arrangement that incorporates his or her favorite things (golf, gardening, favorite location, for example).

One of the first and most common questions after deciding to send funeral flowers is where should the flowers go? While many people choose to send the flowers to the funeral home for the viewing or church for the service, the attached cards are not often seen by the family. Sending flowers to the family's home is also an excellent option. Also, often a gift of a potted plant is even more appreciated than cut flowers, which fade and die over time. The potted plant can later be placed in a memorial garden or even planted on the grave site.

It is most important to remember when purchasing funeral flowers that you want to bring comfort to the mourners, so make sure that your choice is something that will bring them comfort. If you are unsure, the staff at Bergeron's is, of course, always available to help you make a selection.